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What’s Red, White, & Rashy All Over? (Um, My Baby.)

Sunday, March 14th, 2010

First things first: I must offer my apologies for being a bit out of touch over here. You see, my husband is currently suffering from being ONE ARMED (well, kind of) and that has made things a bit busy in our household with the recent snowstorm and everything.  Take this, for example:

[Scene: The entryway to our house, me shaking off the wet, matted snow from my hair, hat, and coat.]

Me: Man, this blizzard is a freaking sonofabitch.

Him: [On couch, drinking warm things, with warm slippers and a warm, fluffy robe] Wha…?

Me: Did I wake you? OW. I think I messed up my knees shoveling this second foot of snow off our driveway.

Him: Lady, I don’t want to hear it. I’m the one who had SHOULDER SURGERY.

And then, the very next day, he REALLY showed me. As I huddled with the kids in our powerless living room, he one-armedly put on his snow pants and boots,  one-armedly drove to my parents, one-armedly fixed their snow blower, one-armedly loaded/unloaded it into the truck, and one-armedly plowed out the neighborhood.

THEN?  He got our son to crap on the toilet.  I am not even kidding you.  After weeks of my fruitless labors, I came home from grocery shopping and BAM. Plus One had crapped on the toilet. Without looking back either.  Going on two weeks straight now.

My husband?  My husband is *such* a showoff.  (Or really sweet. I haven’t yet decided.)

So.  That.  There was all that.

And then after the snow stopped falling, my youngest, T9 went in for his 15 month visit to the pediatrician.  Naturally, I brought my one-armed husband in case we encountered a BEAR or something.   After hearing that he’s healthy and all that we guiltily schlepped him over to the nurse where he had his first MMR shot. He cried, I cried, and we headed for the car.

They sent us home with a sheet of paper that says something about a possible rash and fever.  I heard the nurse as she explained it, but I was also busy repenting to my son with kisses.  I didn’t really pay attention.

Then, exactly 8 days later, T9 got a fever.  I cursed the germ gods in my head; I mean they’d just gotten sick like two weeks ago.  And this fever was a stubborn one, too.  I had to alternate Motrin and Tylenol just to keep it around the 100 mark.  The craziest part, I kept telling everyone, is that he has no symptoms! Like, there was a fever, sure.  But where was the illness?  The boogers?  The cough?

Well, two days later, this appeared, and well.  I mean, just LOOK AT IT.

MMR Vaccination Side Effects

MMR Vaccination Side Effects

My baby.

I cannot even tell you what the voices in my head sounded like at that point.

And now, about 48 hours later, it seems to be retreating.  Which is good, because I have been mind-bulleting the shit out of that thing.  That thing on my baby.

And I’m showing you in case you’re out there, right now, freaking the hell out like I was.

It’s scary. I’m feeling guilty.

T9 and Plus One, partners in crime.

T9 and Plus One, partners in crime.

But I think the boy’s gonna be okay.

Juvenile Dermatomyositis & One Family’s Story

Friday, October 2nd, 2009

I have an extra post today.  A blogging friend has organized a bunch of people to raise awareness about a childhood autoimmune disorder.  Read his story to find out more about the disease, and follow the link to his blog to say hello.

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Kevin of Always Home and Uncool has asked a whole slew of blogs to post this as part of his effort to raise awareness in the blogosphere of juvenile myositis, a rare autoimmune disease his daughter was diagnosed with on this day seven years ago. The day also happens to be his wife’s birthday.

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Our pediatrician admitted it early on.

The rash on our 2-year-old daughter’s cheeks, joints and legs was something he’d never seen before.

The next doctor wouldn’t admit to not knowing.

He rattled off the names of several skins conditions — none of them seemingly worth his time or bedside manner — then quickly prescribed antibiotics and showed us the door.

The third doctor admitted she didn’t know much.

The biopsy of the chunk of skin she had removed from our daughter’s knee showed signs of an “allergic reaction” even though we had ruled out every allergy source — obvious and otherwise — that we could.

The fourth doctor had barely closed the door behind her when, looking at the limp blonde cherub in my lap, she admitted she had seen this before. At least one too many times before.

She brought in a gaggle of med students. She pointed out each of the physical symptoms in our daughter:

The rash across her face and temples resembling the silhouette of a butterfly.

The purple-brown spots and smears, called heliotrope, on her eyelids.

The reddish alligator-like skin, known as Gottron papules, covering the knuckles of her hands.

The onset of crippling muscle weakness in her legs and upper body.

She then had an assistant bring in a handful of pages photocopied from an old medical textbook. She handed them to my wife, whose birthday it happened to be that day.

That was seven years ago — Oct. 2, 2002 — the day our daughter was found to have juvenile dermatomyositis, one of a family of rare autoimmune diseases that can have debilitating and even fatal consequences when not treated quickly and effectively.

Our daughter’s first year with the disease consisted of surgical procedures, intravenous infusions, staph infections, pulmonary treatments and worry. Her muscles were too weak for her to walk or swallow solid food for several months. When not in the hospital, she sat on our living room couch, propped up by pillows so she wouldn’t tip over, as medicine or nourishment dripped from a bag into her body.

Our daughter, Thing 1, Megan, now age 9, remembers little of that today when she dances or sings or plays soccer. All that remain with her are scars, six to be exact, and the array of pills she takes twice a day to help keep the disease at bay.

What would have happened if it took us more than two months and four doctors before we lucked into someone who could piece all the symptoms together? I don’t know.

I do know that the fourth doctor, the one who brought in others to see our daughter’s condition so they could easily recognize it if they ever had the misfortune to be presented with it again, was a step toward making sure other parents also never have to find out.

That, too, is my purpose today.

It is also my birthday gift to my wife, My Love, Rhonda, for all you have done these past seven years to make others aware of juvenile myositis diseases and help find a cure for them once and for all.

To read more about children and families affected by juvenile myositis diseases, visit Cure JM Foundation at www.curejm.org.

To make a tax-deductible donation toward JM research, go to www.firstgiving.com/rhondaandkevinmckeever or www.curejm.com/team/donations.htm.

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His Name Really is Dr. Hurts*

Wednesday, September 30th, 2009

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I’m talking about my sons’ pediatrician. We’ve known him now for almost three years.  Ever since the morning after his birth, when he came into the hospital room and my husband and I proceeded to embarrass ourselves:

Me: I guess that’s got to be an unfortunate name for a doctor, huh?

The Hub: Yeah, we were laughing about that before you came in!  [Realizing too late]  But I’m guessing you’ve heard that one before.

Dr. Hurts: [Not really amused.] Yeah, yeah.  I have.

Luckily, he forgave us, and now actually seems to have a man-crush on my husband.  Every time he walks through the door and notices it’s just me present for the appointment, the look of disappointment is hard to ignore.

But this isn’t about my frail ego.  It’s about our unfortunately-named doctor.  A doctor that our whole family *loves.*  Could have something to do with his gentle, amused tolerance for my neurosis.  But also because we had a slight scare when our eldest—let’s call him Plus One—was younger.  I’m lucky enough to have two children with relatively nonexistent medical histories.  In fact, Plus One  just had his first legitimate fever at 2 1/2.  (While it nearly killed ME, he emerged unscathed.)

But around age 9 months, there was the Great Autism Worry…similar to the Great Depression, but with less stock market and more Momma Anxiety.  You see, Plus One hadn’t started babbling.  He did a lot of what we described as GROANING (oh, Lord, I still remember that unsettling noise).  He was practically walking.  He was even using a sippy cup!  But the verbals were the prized trophy of normalcy.  He was evaluated and tested and observed.  We talked to family.  Looked at websites.  Read books.  Nothing could help us know if our son was going to break his silence.

Then one day, he just started babbling.  I nearly CRIED, I was so relieved.  His speech was slightly delayed as well, but these days the kid can chatter more than I usually care to hear.  Though, those quirky phrases are certainly one of my favorite parts of parenting so far (”Momma! Can I have some cookie? Here? In my mouth?! PUUUHHHLEEASEE!”).

And Dr. Hurts walked us through it all.  The vaccination debate.  His own experience with having an autistic child.  The worry.  The questions.  And the celebration.

So, I guess that’s all I have to say about the whole thing.  The dreaded AUTISM thing.  I cannot say which is better or worse for YOUR child.  No one really can for sure, is the thing.  All I can say is that it’s scary.  That it’s stressful.  And that doctors know lots about it…probably lots more than bloggers or annoying neighbors or pesky relatives.

In the end, I’m glad we chose what was best for us, and with the guidance of a professional with intimate knowledge of the subject.

(Even if his name suggests and eerie comic book villain.)

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*…well, it’s spelled differently, but I don’t want the guy to get too curious with Google.